So your crush finally asked you out. What now?
Every one of us experiences the excitement and the anxieties of a 'first date'. We all get caught up and try to make a good first impression - in hopes of scoring a second date with that cute boy/girl you've been crushing on for ages. But let's not get ahead of ourselves and jump to thinking about second dates already... Everyone has to take it one step at a time. Remember, he already asked you out on a date, which means he already likes you.
Nowadays, it is common for teenagers to be a little intimidated and nervous on their first dates. We all stress about finding the perfect place, the perfect outfit, what to say and even how to act around them... But what we really just have to remember is to take a breather and RELAX. You have nothing to stress over. If they took the time to ask you out, you're already one step closer! Just stay calm, pick the cutest outfit you have in your closet, doll yourself up a bit and dress appropriately in according to where he is taking you. More importantly, play it cool.
Remember, first dates are supposed to be just for getting to know one another, find out each other's likes and dislikes, what hobbies you have in common, etc. For instance, try to find a nice cafe around the block, have dinner and get to know one another. Make sure that the place has a good atmosphere where you can just enjoy each other's company. Keep it simple, be yourself and just enjoy the moment. As long as you stay true to yourself, chances are, he will ask you out for a second date. Who knows? He might just be the one.
TIP OF THE DAY:
Remember, first dates are supposed to be just for getting to know one another, find out each other's likes and dislikes, what hobbies you have in common, etc. For instance, try to find a nice cafe around the block, have dinner and get to know one another. Make sure that the place has a good atmosphere where you can just enjoy each other's company. Keep it simple, be yourself and just enjoy the moment. As long as you stay true to yourself, chances are, he will ask you out for a second date. Who knows? He might just be the one.
TIP OF THE DAY:
Try not to give away your whole life story on the first date. You always have to leave them wanting more ;).
Provided the guy has given you the right signs. A guy can easily just take a girl on a date, to get laid, I’m just saying. Taking someone on a date doesn’t mean they like the other person, it’s a little more complicated than that. I love the last point though, yes you should never give everything away. Mystery is important and keeps things interesting. I’m not going to watch a movie, if I know where all the plot twists are and how it ends, there is no point. Keep the introduction light and don’t give them too much information. Never show your bottom card, lol poker refrence…
ReplyDeleteI like your tip of the day! I find that some people reveal too much on their first date. You do not want to come off too strong, and you want the other person to get to know you naturally. Sometimes revealing too much can be too pushy.
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