Got V-Day Blues?

It's either you hate-it or you love-it, But whether we're ready or not, Love is in the air and Valentines Day is just around the corner...

Let's have a flashback shall we?
Remember all those times in middle school when Valentines Day rolls around, you just couldn't wait to get to school and see what was in-store for you that day?  You usually look for something in particular and see whether you'll be getting a special card or chocolate from a "Secret Admirer" - hoping it's the guy that you've been crushing on? Or how about the annual School Dance where everybody would just stand by the walls and wait for someone to ask you to dance the next slow song? Brings back memories doesn't it?

Now it just feels as if times have changed huh? You look back and think to yourself, we had it pretty easy back then... we were young and infatuated. Now that you're just a little bit older and understand the great things and even the complicated things when it comes to love, it seems like holidays such as this can easily take a toll on us. Nowadays, when you ask someone what comes to mind when February 14 hits? It's like a series of mixed emotions just come rushing in. Some of us may either dread this day and can't wait until it's over or there are those who just eagerly count the days until it arrives.  Even then, at some point or another, I'm sure the thought has even crossed our minds that there doesn't even have to be a holiday that should remind us when you should do something nice for your loved ones, because when you love someone, everyday should be Valentines Day right? But try looking at it this way... there must be a reason why this holiday exists, so why not make the best of it? Whether we like it or not, its a national holiday so don't be a grump and spend it with your loved ones. It may just be another day to you, but it's definitely a good reminder of the many great people you have in your life, so cherish the moment. Holidays are supposed to make us happy, not the opposite.

Also, Valentines Day is a day to show your appreciation for your loved ones, not just for your current beau or crush, but to everyone else around you that you love as well, whether it's your family, your bff or even your yourself. It's simply a day to just celebrate the love you have for the people around you and letting them know how much they mean to you.

***So, if you already were planning to loaft around and drown yourself with ice cream, watching the same-old chick flicks and  constantly think about why this is how you chose to spend the day... Don't even think about doing it.  Instead, gather your girlfriends and spend the day with them, if you don't want to go out, then have a "girl's-night-in" and have a chick-flick marathon.  There is just no use in sulking in and feeling blue during this time all by yourself. Try to keep in mind that there's nothing better than surrounding yourself with good company especially if you're with loved ones. 

Now, I think it's safe to say that we all have different scenarios when it comes to our love-life and I'm sure every one of us can exchange opinions and stories about why we either love or hate this day - but just remember to be optimistic. No matter what your situation may be currently, take this day to unwind and relax with your loved ones, whomever it may be. Go out for dinner, watch a movie,  or stay-in and just hangout with your bff's, do whatever pleases your heart. Single or not on Valentines, enjoy the day! Give yourself something to smile about and stay happy!


TIP OF THE DAY:
Keep an open mind. Try not to be so quick to write-off this holiday. Just be optimistic, because no matter what your situation may be currently, it isn't permanent. Staying positive just makes things that much better.